small things: GG Phillips

A week ago today, my Grandma Phillips left this world at 100 yrs-old.

She was blessed enough to go peacefully in her sleep.

She was a very caring person right to the end, being concerned for the welfare of her boys. Me and couple of my kids were able to attend her funeral and hear all the wonderful stories of how her house was always full of family in need of a place to stay. Once she and Grandpa even gave their room to someone and slept in a single bed in the dining room. They would have to wake each other if they wanted to roll over. She and Grandpa owned a hotel in Green River and would never turn away a traveler or the homeless in need of a meal. She once accepted a salesman's

set of pots and pans in payment for a room.

Although we are all sad that we won't be able to just drop by and see her anymore, we are all happy that she is out of pain and back to Grandpa's side and with her sister too.

It's comforting to know that a loving Father in Heaven has made it possible

for us to be together again as a family.

We may miss her for a short time now, but will be reunited again.

We've been blessed with a great example from a great woman.

Until we meet again!!

Jay (Dad), Sharon (Mom), three daughters (Colleen, Julie, Noelle), our kids and our kids kids (most of them)

Although she wouldn't have liked all the fuss made about her, she would have

been really pleased to see all of us together. She loved her family!

1918 ~ 2018
Salt Lake City, Utah-Lenore Neeley Phillips passed away at the age of 100 at her home surrounded by her family in Midvale, Utah, on Friday, April, 13 2018. Lenore was born January 22, 1918, at her family's home in Felt, Idaho, the youngest of 6 children, to Enos A. Neeley and Eva Ann Ricks Neeley. Lenore graduated from a one-room schoolhouse, high school and attended Ricks College. Lenore married Vail Jensen Phillips in 1939 in Victor, Idaho. The family grew to have three sons, V.Jay Phillips (b. 1940), Douglas H. Phillips (b. 1952), and Don A. Phillips (b. 1953). In 1942, the family moved to Utah. Lenore held several jobs of prestige throughout her life, including executive secretary for GE's district sales mgr. for 23 years. In addition, Lenore and Vail part-owned and managed the Book Cliff Motor Inn in Green River, Utah. Lenore also managed the St. Marks Hospital gift shop and volunteered at various hospitals.
Lenore was preceded in death by her husband, her sisters, Vida, Reva, Norma, Alice and brother Austin. She is survived by her sons, Jay (Sharon), Doug, and Don; her grandchildren Colleen Roundy (Wade), Julie Winterton (Brad), Noelle Whitaker (Joseph), Nathan Phillips, and Amy Nisar (Saifar); and her brother-in-law Boyd E. Phillips (Donna); as well as 19 great-grandchildren, 8 great-great-grandchildren, and many close nieces and nephews. Thanks to Angels of Hospice.
A viewing will be held Thursday April 19, 2018 from 1-1:45 PM at Wasatch Lawn Mortuary 3401 S. Highland Dr. Salt Lake City, Utah. Graveside service to follow at Wasatch Lawn Cemetery.

Published in Salt Lake Tribune from Apr. 15 to Apr. 16, 2018

Wow!!

Turning 100 is a huge deal!

Unfortunately Grandma doesn't want to celebrate or make a fuss.

So I'll just have to honor her in a sneaky way on this blog, without her knowing until after the fact.

I certainly can't do justice to her life but I've tried to touch

a few high points. To keep it brief, I also won't be

able to show or mention many family members or others that love her or we would be here all day!

Grandma was born Lenore Neeley

January 22, 1918

the youngest of 6 kids to

Enos Austin Neeley and Eva Ann Ricks

in Felt, Teton, Idaho

on the family farm near Driggs, Idaho

This is a water color that I painted for my Dad of the Neeley family farm.

Growing up there, they didn't have running water or electricity.

I remember going there as a kid. The river behind it, in those trees, was called "Bitch Crick" but was originally named Beech Creek. I think the name changed because it was sooooo cold. I can attest to that because Dad took us fly fishing there once. Brrrrrr!

Grandma was the great niece of Thomas E Ricks who was the first

chairman of the board of the Bannock Stake Academy, later named Ricks College in his honor.

In 2000, it became a 4-yr university named Brigham Young University-Idaho

She attended there for a year.

Her mom always made her wear long underwear under the stockings to keep her warm.

But as soon as she and her sister were out of site, they would roll them up and take off the stockings.

Ha, I think clothing battles between mothers and daughters have always existed.

Only 17 months apart, she and her sister Alice were best friends and inseparable.

As a matter of fact, it was difficult to find any pictures with Grandma alone (I had to do some cropping)

Grandma holding her bunny.

In a flapper dress

In front of the farm house.

She says she was never very interested in food,

which accounts for her thin frame.

Although her family didn't have much money, they learned to make due with what they had.

The girls would take old dresses and take pieces from one and put on another to make

a whole new dress. She said, "Some of the girls were jealous of us because the boys liked us.

They thought we had the cutest clothes they'd ever seen."

She never considered herself very pretty but I think this picture proves otherwise.

Grandma and Grandpa were friends in high school. They got more serious after graduation

but took a year break when Grandpa said he was taking another girl out.

But after that, it was a done deal. Grandpa used to say, "I chased her until she caught me!"

They were married September 30, 1939 and were always together for 63 years until Grandpa died of pancreatic cancer in 2002.

I love how he's looking at her here.

Their first child was my father, Jay, born in Rexburg, Idaho.

Because her water broke at 5 months, she was bed ridden for 3 months. She always described it as sleeping on her head because they propped the bottom of the bed up.

It worked though, and I'm grateful for her sacrifice.

Subsequent pregnancies proved to be difficult too, resulting in many miscarriages.

This lead them to adopt a 2 day-old baby boy, who was "meant to be" theirs, naming him Doug.

Finally a year and 2 weeks later she was able to give birth to another son, Don.

Jay (Dad) kneeling, Doug (left), Don (right)

Her life revolves around her boys. She raves about their good natures and the joy it was to raise them.

Doug, Grandma, Don, Jay. Looks like no one wanted to pose this day.
They are usually much more smiley than this. :)

Grandma has a great sense of humor that keeps everyone smiling. She's the one that put the bows on Abby's head.

While Grandpa was the quiet gentle type, Grandma was the fun center of attention. It is her way of making people feel at ease and have a good time. Her co-workers came to count on her for a laugh.

She wasn't past a practical joke either. When she was young, she and her sister Alice became upset with their oldest sister. Because of their age difference, they really didn't know her very well. She remembers, "We got disgusted

and mad at her when she made us do things when she came home to visit.

Alice and I would take pins and stick them in her dresses hanging in the closet, right where her rear end would be."

Alright, maybe not everyone was smiling, but it sure made me laugh!